July 15, 1921 – August 24, 2019
Mildred’s remarkable life came to a close this summer. She was in her own home, surrounded by the love or her family, as was her wish for her final departure. Mildred was born to Edith Muriel Riddell (nee Clark) of Montreal and Arthur Gourlay Riddell of Hamilton. She and her younger sister, Douglas Clark Hodge (d. 2019), shared the closest of sibling bonds for their entire lives. Friday evenings were spent with great howls of laughter shared with the Riddell cousins at their grandparent’s home in Hamilton. Mildred and Douglas spent their childhood summers with the Clark family in Manitou, Quebec and attended Camp Oconto, where Mildred gained her life-long love of the great outdoors. She was educated in Hamilton at Adelaide Hoodless Central Collegiate and attended business school after which she worked for a time in the offices of Canada Crushed Stone. Mildred became a Girl Guide leader in her effort to inspire and share with others, her love of nature. At age 14 she met Kenneth Baker Hodd at a Girl Guide–Boy Scout event celebrating a Royal visit. They became fast friends and sweethearts. When war was declared, Kenn enlisted as part of the Royal Corps of Signals. He asked Mildred to wait for him and so it was that they became engaged at age 18. Having earlier earned her St John’s Ambulance Certificate, Mildred was a volunteer ambulance driver during the war, while Kenn served in the Italian theatre. Following their long wartime separation, Mildred and Kenn were married in August 1945. They had four children; Jane (Paul Reble), Patricia (Henry Krukowski), John (Karen Siggs) and Elizabeth (Arlie Katzman). Mildred was the ultimate homemaker, her family being the fortunate recipients of her skills in sewing, gardening and particularly cooking. Her pies and butter tarts were The Best! Mildred’s life motto could well have been “fidelity and service to others”. She was a loyal wife and mother and a steadfast friend, keeping many of her schoolgirl friendships until death. The organizations she belonged to include, Red Cross, Big Sisters, Women’s Canadian Club and the IODE, of which she was a charter member (75 years).Through these and others, she actively supported many charities. Mildred was a life-long learner, always interested in current events, geography, history, theatre, the world of nature and politics (Question Period). Her broad interests encompassed preserving her garden harvest, knitting, sewing, antiques, cycling, hiking, badminton, bridge, water sports, boating, picnics and book club. She was a voracious reader of both fiction and non-fiction, including subscriptions to Majesty and Royalty magazines. In later years she used an electronic reader as her sight began to fail. Mildred enjoyed sharing digital photos and keeping in touch daily with her children and friends on FaceTime. One of her greatest passions was travelling. She was fortunate to have visited over 50 countries, often with her best friend Gerrie Warner, with Kenn and their friends and with her children up until her last year. Her atlas was well thumbed. However, her favourite place in the world was at the cottage that she and Kenn built on Georgian Bay, where the family spent the summers playing and working together with friends and neighbours. There Mildred would spend most of her time outdoors sharing her enthusiasm for swimming, canoeing, wildflowers, forest creatures and especially birds. Binoculars were always close at hand. Kind, loving, generous and fair, Mildred was always a lady whether in elegant outfits and pearls or bug suit and rubber duckies. Her genuine interest in the lives of others made her a very good listener. She had an acute memory, often choosing to remember the good things over the bad and was blessed with a mind sharp as a tack to the very end. In 2005, Mildred and Kenn celebrated their 60th wedding anniversary at the cottage. Mildred was a model of strength in the face of adversity, when in 2006, a rare disease suddenly took the life of our beloved Patricia, followed by the passing in 2008 at the family home of her dear husband Kenn. Mildred and Kenn both learned to fly small planes, on one occasion flying cross country together, from Hamilton to Inuvik, above the Arctic Circle. She was a member of the “Ninety Nines”, International Organization of Women’s Pilots. Is it a coincidence that in her 99th year, Mildred got her angel’s wings after a life so well lived? Family was everything to Mildred and she was everything to us. Mildred will be fondly remembered by Peter and Martha Hodge, Sandi McCormack Snively, Philipp Weinschrod, Erin, Henry and Mathew Kolodziej. Mildred’s family wishes to express their heartfelt gratitude to the wonderful caregivers from St. Elizabeth’s Nursing Care and Home Sweet Home for Seniors in Dundas. In lieu of flowers, Mildred’s family greatly appreciates donations to the charity of your choice or to the M. Patricia Krukowski memorial fund at St. Joseph’s Hospital Foundation, Hamilton, Ontario, in memory of Mildred C. Hodd. A Pictorial Celebration of Mildred’s Life will be held at the Dundas Valley Golf and Curling Club, on Sunday October 6, 2019 between the hours of 2-5pm. Cremation has taken place.
I’d like to remember Mildred the way she lived . When I think of her, I smile, she had the most kind ways and always made you feel heard and thought of. Her sharp memory put mine to shame. I’ll sincerely miss her, as all of us will. I like that she always found the goodness in everyone. Never a mean nor small remark about anyone. Her family was her all. Be content for her, she lived a wonderful life the way we all should.
A true gentlewoman has left us. Mr. and Mrs. Hodd were friends of my parents and our family during all my growing up years. They took great interest in our lives, encouraging us in our various pursuits. Phone chats with Mrs. Hodd were always uplifting as she was so active herself, enthusiastically volunteering her time and talents in her community. She had an amazing memory for detail, always aware of what was happening in our lives. It was fun to hear the excitement in her voice after she spent time at her beloved cottage. Mrs. Hodd added so much to the lives of everyone around her, and she will be deeply missed. She led a full life, and her rest has certainly been well earned. God bless you, Mrs. Hodd.
Marjorie Lowes Sept. 28
I was a friend of Mildred’s daughter’s particularly Jane & Pat Mildred always so kind and interested in our skiing work travel and other activities, I even inadvertently happen to be on one of Mildred’s many trips it was a pleasure to happen to be on that same trip.
I also have very fond memories of a couple summer visits to the cottage when both ken and Mildred Jane & Pat made us so welcome.
My sincerest sympathy to Mildred’s family Marjorie
We have only known Mildred for a relatively short time, that being since her daughter Elizabeth came into our dear friend Arlie’s life. During her visits to their home in Niagara-on-the-Lake, we shared many meals, interesting discussions (and debates), quiet afternoons in the garden, looking out on Lake Ontario, watching sailboats, looking at the Toronto skyline, and enjoying magnificent sunsets. She was always very much the Lady, elegant in style and attitude, making her contribution to what was going on around her. The solicitous care and compassionate love she received from her children and their spouses during her failing health was in a direct response to that which she gave them all during her lifetime. May her soul be bound up in eternal life as we remember her with love and respect.
Sincere condolences from the Vowels family. We are neighbors at Mildred’s cottage in Parry Sound and we have known the Hodd family for over 50 years. It was always wonderful to speak to Mildred and she wanted to get caught up on everyone in the family. The last time we spoke she asked about every member of the family especially the youngest and wanting to know how they were doing as they started their working careers. She was very kind and warm to all of us.
Gary Smith and Willard Boudreau-Mildred is remembered by us for the way she made friends with everyone and always thought the very best of those she knew. We remember spending time with her at her lovely cottage and how she was concerned that everyone was happy and well looked after. She was always a gracious person and enjoyed being with people. We will remember how she made us so welcome in her summer home and how she appreciated good conversation, fun and different points of view. We were not close friends but remain good friends with her daughter Jane and husband Paul. We know they will miss Mildred terribly but have so many wonderful memories that they can call upon to keep sadness away. WE will celebrate her life and know that she lived it to the fullest…..