April 8, 1926 – February 24, 2016
Peacefully at St. Joseph’s Villa on Wednesday, February 24th 2016 in her 90th year. Daughter of Will and Doris Garland she was the eldest of 5 children who grew up in North Ormseby – near Middlesbrough in north east England. Monica talked often and fondly of her two brothers and two sisters, and her childhood years: of having the chance just to go to, and finish, school; of her social memories as a member of the North Ormesby Methodist Church youth group; of the times with her second Mum and Dad when evacuated to Pickering in North Yorkshire during the Second World War. In the years following she served as a WREN in the armed forces – more stories and more fond memories. Married to Bill Elliott in 1949 they raised two children – Glynis and Andrew in Marton, England. In 1966, as did thousands of other families at that time, they left England and emigrated, settling in Ancaster, Ontario Canada where they built a happy, successful, loving family life together for themselves and their children. They believed in their great good fortune and became Canadian citizens. Monica worked for many years as an office manager at the CNIB when it was located in West Hamilton. Bill and Monica were avid ballroom dancers for most of their adult lives, both in England and Canada, finishing third in the Canadian Amateur championships in the early 1970’s. In later years they became equally avid golfers and curlers where they were members of the Dundas Valley Golf and Curling Club. They had friends everywhere, most recently in their final home together at Saint Joseph’s Estates in Dundas, Ontario. Survived by Sisters and In-Laws Ann, Marie, Bea (James); Grandchildren Paulette (Greg), Michelle, Kathleen (Jamie), Robert; Second Mother to Kristine, Sonia (Ian), Pauline, Michael; Great Grandchildren Ellie and Grayson; Nieces and Nephews; John and Gillian; John and Raymond; Stephen; David, Susan, Julia, and Jane; Pamela and Janice; Anne and Robert. Son Andrew: “Deep down Mum was the most loving, caring, thoughtful, consistent person I have ever known. She always maintained a wonderful, wry sense of humour. None of life’s ups and downs stopped her”. Monica left behind so very many friends everywhere. Sadly we will all miss her; fortunately happy memories will live on in each of us.
Beautiful words!!!! xoxoxoxo
Condolences to the family and friends, for the passing of Monica.
She sure was a special lady!
May the memories of her be a blessing to you.
XO
My prayers go out to you and your family Andy. Your mother is at peace now, as you can be. You respected her wishes and her desire to live independently and happily. A job well done. May God Bless.
Bev McGill
A lovely lady who was very kind to all. She will be missed by all who knew her.
Andrew, so sorry of hear of your mom’s passing. She had a long and active life and will be remembered by many. One of my great memories is when your mom and dad hosted a surprise 25th wedding anniversary party for my parents. We still have a picture of my mom’s face when she walked in the room! Fond memories from our family to yours.
Take care. Sincerely, Vic and Anne Riman
Deepest sympathy and happy memories.
Dear Andrew & Family
Sorry to hear of your mom’s passing. She leaves all of us with wonderful memories growing up in Ancaster. I often think of the fun times learning ball room dancing from your mom and dad; some of us took too it better than others, but always a good time. Your mom lead by example, true and steady in her commitment and passion. She will always be part of our fondest memories. Much Love!
Sincerely, Bruce & Trish (Patty) Oliver