Passed away peacefully after an illness at St. Peter’s Hospital on June 22, 2026, in her 83rd year. Beloved wife of the late James Abbey. Loving mother to Daron (Ann-Marie) and Daniel (Leah). Caring grandma of Brendan, Kurtis, Sarah, and Connor. Bette will be sadly missed by her sister-in-law Susan Sherman, her nieces and nephews, great nieces and nephews, cousins, and many friends including folks at St. Joseph’s Estates and her quilting friends.

Bette was born to William and Gladys Smith (nee Marden) in April 1944. Growing up in Dundas, she attended Dundas Central Public and was in the first graduation year at Parkside Highschool. After attending teachers’ college in Hamilton, Bette worked as a teacher at Yorkview Elementary School until she became a mom in 1972. In addition to volunteering at the boys’ school, she pursued her artistic passions and worked at the Dundas Valley School of Art in the office and served as Registrar. Bette enjoyed traveling, whether it was camping with Jim and her boys, or later cruising with Jim through Europe or traveling in North America, she loved the adventure. Bette was an amazing artist and crafter pursuing home decorating, sewing, knitting, stained-glass making, pottery, but her passion was quilting. When she became a grandmother in 2005, she embraced that role with incredible love and enthusiasm, attending every visit, family dinner, and sporting or school event that she could.

Bette was an artistic, caring, and humble person, with a strong work ethic and a strong will to battle any challenges. She will be greatly missed by so many.

Friends and family are invited to the Turner Family Funeral Home, 53 Main St. Dundas, on Thursday, July 2, 2026, from 4-5pm for a visitation. A Funeral Service will be held on the same day at 5pm followed by a reception with sandwiches and treats. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in memory of Bette Abbey to Canadian Cancer Society, St. Peters Hospital or Dundas Community Services.